Selections from ...
How To Be The Almost Perfect Wife:
By Husbands Who Know


Believe in me,
believe in me,
believe in me.

– ALAN, 29
married 1 day


Be my cheerleader. Believe that I have
the talent to achieve my dreams, even if
it takes longer than I ever imagined.

– ED, 47
married 25 years


Help me be a hero to my kids. Speak well
of me and the good things that I do.
Don't only speak about my shortcomings.

– NORMAN, 67
married 22 years,
divorced 22 years


Be my advocate, be on my side.
If you think I'm wrong, try to guide me
to where you think I should be.
Don't beat me up and drag me there.

married 11 years


Just as I tell our kids,
"I love you and I'm proud of you"
I need to hear the same from you: That you
love me and you're proud of me
as a husband and a dad.

– ALEX, 37
married 12 years


Every moment should be treasured
when we're together.
Don't let "life" get in the way.
Our relationship is a special gift that
deserves nothing less than Top Priority.

– STAN, 45
married 7 years


J.S. Salt
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